People would tell us so much more if we learn how to listen. People would us in their hearts if we stop being so judgmental of every dark turn they made.
Remember, every bad path that a person ends up on doesn't mean that they were behind the wheel.
Some people need healing from the scars of paths that they were on.
Some people are vehemently seeking healing.
We're not helping anyone to heal by finding fault in everything they've gone through.